Pantyhose Vs Tights

When it comes to the debate of wearing pantyhose or tights I've decided over the past two winters that I do like both.  However, I have to add that I really enjoy wearing pantyhose more than tights.  Although if you've paid attention to most of the pictures that I've posted on this blog the last several months you've noticed that I've mostly been wearing tights.

I just realized recently that I haven't been wearing pantyhose very often.  It could almost be said that I've become a "tights guy".  Yes, I love tights more than ever.  I think that's because of the fact that it doesn't seem to bother my wife when I wear my opaque tights around the house and because tights seem to come in so many different colors these days.  I know that pantyhose do come in various colors, but colored pantyhose are practically impossible to find in any store.  They can be found online, but they seem to be rather expensive.  On the other hand, I can walk into a store and find opaque tights in a variety of colors.

When I first told my wife that I have a pantyhose fetish (in 2001), she wasn't my wife at the time.  We had already been living together for a couple of years.  I was already sexually frustrated and figured that she would understand because of the fact I was frustrated.  She didn't get upset at all and even seemed to accept it.

What really funny about it is the fact that I wore pantyhose in front of her almost every night for two weeks and she didn't even notice.  I had to point down to my legs to show her.  I now that sounds odd that she hadn't noticed, but she hadn't.

Two things factored into her not noticing.  The first is the fact that I had a very dark suntan on my legs and the second reason is the type of pantyhose that I wore.  I was wearing suntan No Nonsense Sheer To Waist pantyhose.  The unique thing about them is that they don't really have a high spandex content.  Therefore they don't have that "shine" to them that other brands of pantyhose have.

Do you remember these?  You used to be able to go into any grocery store and pick up a pair of these.  Wal Mart still has them.  No Nonsense pantyhose are still available today.  They truly are a brand that has endured the pantyhose drought of the last fifteen years.  They still sell their pantyhose in that same orange package that they had on the shelves twenty five years ago.


Shortly after I told her about my fetish, I started wear Leggs Sheer To Waist pantyhose which do make your legs shine and she didn't react favorably at all.  In fact she reach over scratched runs into more that one pair of my Leggs pantyhose.  A couple of times she really scratched my leg pretty good as well.

So for the next several years I would only wear pantyhose in front of her occasionally.  I would usually try to do it in a way that she wouldn't notice.  Sometimes she would notice.  Sometimes she wouldn't.

What's ironic is that when I started wearing opaque tights, she didn't get upset at all.  I started with basic black, then navy blue and even white.  This year I added even more colors and it hasn't seemed to bother her at all.

This weekend I decided to pull the old bait and switch trick.  On Friday night I wore coffee colors tights.  On Saturday afternoon I switched into a pair of coffee Leggs pantyhose.  I did this about a year ago and she blasted me for it.  So far, this weekend she hasn't said a word about the fact that I'm walking around the house in pantyhose.

My Coffee Colored Tights

My Coffee Colored Pantyhose

Can you see the difference between the two?

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Epilogue:  She seemed to accept me wearing pantyhose.  It's the first time that I've worn Legg's pantyhose in front of her without her reacting negatively.  In well over ten years.

My "Bait and Switch" went over well.  I went from coffee colored tights to coffee colored pantyhose and it didn't bother her.

I don't think she cares these days.  As long as I don't press her to have sex, she seems to be willing to accept me hanging out at home in a pair of tights or pantyhose.

She did put on pantyhose for me Saturday night.  I asked her to pose her legs for the camera, but, she was able to skirt the issue.  All the while, I wore coffee pantyhose and a sweat shirt.

It's better than sneaking around, hoping that she won't find a hidden pair of pantyhose.

I've told her that I like pantyhose.  I've shown her that I like wearing pantyhose.  And I've asked her to wear pantyhose for me.

I would like to think, that by now, she'd understand that since we don't have a sexual relationship, I have my own sexual "thing".

Pantyhose

Showing Off Some More Tights Pictures

I try to take some pictures every weekend.  I can't always do it.  But, most weekends I do.  I just don't always have the time to post them to the blog.  Keep in mind that even when I do take pictures, my wife is almost always at home.  Almost every single picture is taken while she is home, asleep.  I'm always afraid she will catch me.  In fact, she has caught me on more than one occasion.  But I won't go into that now.

Here are some of the pictures that I've taken in the last month or so.

In this particular set I'm wearing Merona Chestnut colored tights.

 

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In this next set I'm wearing Pike Purple Xhilaration tights..

That's my wife's new bra that I'm holding in the one photo.

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We each have our own bathroom.  Although this time of year she does use mine to dry her hair after she showers.  So I know that she will probably go into my bathroom at least once a day.  A couple of weeks ago I started leaving one of my leotards out where she would surely see it.

That way, I'll know, that she knows I've been wearing this leotard.  It's the same plan I used to show her my brick house colored tights.  I preview them to her, to see if they illicit a comment.  They never do.

When she walked into my bathroom, this is what she saw.  My black leotard.

I usually sleep in a tee shirt and a pair of panties.  When I leave for work, I usually lay my shirt and panties across the towel rack.  This time, I left my leotard for her to see.

Please don,t misunderstand.  I wear panties to work.  In fact, I haven't worn men's underware to work in well over a year.  Maybe two.  It's just that when I wake up, I change from my silky "around the house" panties in to my "work" panties.  My work panties are the ones that I don't care whether or not they get worn out from the everyday wear and tear.

She didn't say anything about it at all.

Try Water Balloons

When your wife doesn't want to fuck you.   Think about that for just a moment.  The woman that you are married to, doesn't want to lay on the bed and fuck.  Ever.

So, the evolution of a guy wearing women's clothes continues.  For the last year or two, on the weekends, I've been wearing one of her black bra's, after she takes it off for the evening and goes to bed.  I quickly make a couple of water balloons, put on her bra and slip them in after warming them in the microwave oven.  The warmth of the balloons against my chest help when I'm alone.

Think about it.  Warm water balloons on your chest nestled in your wife's sexy black bra.

Honestly, in the winter, warming up a couple of warm water balloons and wearing them in sexy little bra will help keep you warm and horny for the evening.  At least it does for me.  I used to stuff my bra with a couple of pairs of pantyhose, but the water balloons add some weight to the bra.  I even found that they bounce a little when I walk.

Try it.  You'll be pleasantly surprised.


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I Can Wear Red Tights In Front Of My Wife

I don't think it matters what I wear.  My wife simply doesn't want to have a sexual relationship with me.  She doe's love me.  I do feel that from her.  However, sex isn't in her vocabulary  Ever.

If I were to walk into the room wearing a pair of red opaque tights, my wife would not make any comment at all.  Even though her first thought may be to say, "Why are you wearing that"?  She won't say a single word.

Why?  She's willing to over look what I wear, if I overlook the fact that we're not having sex'

She never try's to start an afternoon of sexual fun.

I wore the Xhilaration Brick Hose tights on Saturday night.  We each had a few beers and watched some recorded tv.  She didn't ask me why I was wearing "brick" colored tights.

The picture above was taken an hour or so after she went to bed Sunday morning.  I stayed up and played dress up.

After this, I put on my high heels to take a few pictured.  I can look good in a pair of black pumps.  Most men can't.

Can you look good in a pair of pumps?

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After my wife had been asleep for quite I while, I put on my pair of purple tights.  I bought them around Christmas time.  They had a run in them when I opened them.  Until tonight, I'd never worn them in front of a camera.

Notice I have tits in this shot.  That's my warm water balloons.

A pair of warm water balloons, a pair of colored tights and a pair of high heels and I'm somewhat happy.

Would you be?  Are you?

Brick House Xhilaration Tights

As I've said before.  This time of year I wear opaque tights or leggings every single evening around the house in front of my wife.  She's sat next to me on the couch watching television with me while I've worn purple and burgundy and even blue opaque tights.

But.  There's always a but, isn't there?  I'm a little embarrassed when I first wear a new color in front of her.  I'm always worried that the next color, will be the one to push her over the edge and get pissed off about me wearing tights.

For instance.  I bought a pair of red and a pair of pink tights before Christmas and I haven't worn either color in front of her.  I've worn them.  Just not around her.  I have the fear that if she see's me in pink, she my not react favorably.  How many women wouldn't say something if they saw their fifty year old husband walk into the room wearing a pair of hot pink opaque tights?

I do have a pair of red cotton and spandex footless leggings that I wear underneath my clothes for work during the winter, but that's the only red that I've worn.  Other that socks.  No red or anything close to red in the tights category.

Until tonight that is.  At least that's my plan

A couple of weeks ago I set out my pair of Xhilaration Brick House tights on my bathroom counter so that she could see them.  I didn't say anything about them.  I just left them for her to see.  My thinking was that if they upset her in any way, she'd say something then.  As opposed to me walking in the room and have her make some snide comment.

Since I've successfully "previewed" these tights to my wife, I've decided that tonight should be the night that I wear these tights in front of her.  I'm just hoping that she won't say anything negative.

After she goes to bed I'll try to take a few more pictures wearing these tights.  I may even slip on a pair of my high heels.

What do you think of these tights?  Do you like them?

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