Saturday, December 31, 2011

The End Of 2011

The year of 2011 wrapped up and I was still doing the same old thing.  Which, when you think about it,  isn't a bad thing at all.  At least I'm still alive and doing some of the things I love to do, when I can.  It's a whole lot better than not being able to.


You might be surprised at how I can look in a pair of pantyhose or tights.  Unfortunately,  I'm only able to show off every once in a while.  I wish I could let viewers and readers see the way I dress in lingerie when I have the time to do it.  Usually, my daily routine, coupled with life's obligations along with embarrassment, get in the way of play time in pantyhose high heels.  My pantyhose time is stifled by everyday life.  I can't just set up the camera and take a few pictures whenever I feel like it, without risking being caught by my wife.  Which of course, is the embarrassing part.

The unseen poses

I can pose.  I know how to wear a pair of pantyhose or tights, stiletto heels and strut my limited stuff.  I just don't get the chance to do it often.  Actually, I'm surprised at some of the videos I've posted on "You Tube" as "mostlyleggs"  I know how to show off my legs like a girl.  In fact, I know how to do it better than my wife does.  She doesn't seem to ever have a sexual thought in her mind at all.  Ever.  Much less, how to show of her body a little.  I'd love for her to play the role of a sultry vixen one evening.  Instead,  I'm the one dressing the part.

I think what I'm trying to say is that as good as some of my videos may look.  I look better when the camera isn't on me. It's the moments that aren't captured that I'm talking about.  Just me, sitting on the couch, crossing my legs while wearing pantyhose and a pair of stiletto heels. No camera.  Just me alone.  It's a turn on for me.  Shaved legs in pantyhose and I can play by myself and enjoy it.  I like the way my legs feel in pantyhose.  It's that simple.

I"m a guy that has long and lean legs and I don't have a big'ol beer belly.   Which is a plus, for showing the fetish in me in pictures and video..  I also happen to be a man whose wife won't fuck him, and has to rely on getting himself off.  So, I sit around in a pair of stiletto high heels and pair of pantyhose or these days, tights.

Ten years ago I told her that I was sexually frustrated AND that I had a fetish for pantyhose.  She didn't get upset about my admission at all.   She knows that I like her legs.  What's almost funny, is that even though that she knows I'm sexually frustrated, she never offers sex.  Ever.

In an average year I'm lucky if we fuck twice.  Can you believe that?  Twice?

My sex life is, all by myself.  It's that simple.  When I have an orgasm, my wife is usually no where near me.
I usually get off once a week.  I push myself until I can't stand it anymore.  I hold myself off in anticipation of the "big one".  It usually is.  At times, I surprise myself at how much I squirt out onto the bathroom counter top.

When I actually do jerk off,  I don't usually wear pantyhose the traditional way.  I usually strip naked then put a pair on my "alternate" way.  It's kind of like wearing a thong and a cock ring.  I've posted a video showing how it's done.  Find the video and give it a try.  I just searched Google for "Alternate Way To Wear Pantyhose" and guess what, it's there.

I've shown my "Alternate Way To Wear Pantyhose" video on this blog before.  If you haven't seen it, please watch it.  It shows it all.

I've Been Wearing My Wife's Black Bra

On the weekends I've been paying attention to whether or not my wife takes her bra off before she goes to bed.  Sometimes, she'll leave her bra in the living.  On occasion, when she does, I like to wear it with two water balloons bouncing around it.  Just heat the water balloons in the microwave and you can keep yourself comfortably warm on a cold winters eve.

She actually has two black bras, and to be honest, I can't tell them apart from each other.  But if she leaves one of them lying around on the weekend,  I'll probably wear it.  At least for a little while.

I've shopped for a black bra of my own.  I've tried to find one like my wife has.  I just can't find one.  These days, the bras in the stores seem to be all "push up" bras.  It's hard to find a soft silky feeling bra that's not "push up".


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When it comes down to it.  I'm just a married guy that jerks off while wearing pantyhose.

On the weekends, I take chances,  I end up drinking a little too much and dressing up in something that I'd rather she not see me wearing.  I'm scared that one weekend night that she'll stumble down the hall and find me in her bra and a pair of my stiletto heels.  I don't think she'd go berserk on me, but it wouldn't be something that I"d like to find out about.

She knows that I have a pantyhose fetish.  That part is simple.  She's seen me "hang out" with her on the weekends wearing only a sweatshirt, women's tights and slouch socks.  She doesn't complain.  We just get along.  We've "gotten along" for a lot of years now.  We enjoy each other's company almost all off the time.  We just don't have sex.

Over the last couple of weeks I've been wearing new tights.  I found some very sexy colored tights at Target.  They're got two brands that until recently I had never tried.  Merona and Xhilaration.  The Xhilaration tights are more sheer than the Merona brand.  In fact, they almost feel like pantyhose.



The pictures below were taken on December 25, 2011.  That's right, Christmas.  I spent the evening at home with my wife.  I wore burgundy tights and burgundy slouch socks with a black sweatshirt.  It's kind of an interesting outfit for a guy to wear around the house with his wife.   Later, after she went to bed, I slipped on the red tights.












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5 comments:

xdress17j said...

Happy New Year my friend! You look absolutely fabulous in tights and stilletos! Wishing you a Happy 2012 and for your dreams to cum true. Till then keep stroking those legs and cock in your pantyhose and tights...from another friend who loves to get off in tights and pantyhose too

Paintedtoesnpantyhose said...

Happy New Year SH2WPH,Luv the colors huney that ass is so sweet&that cute hard cock makes my mouth water&my ass ready to take it all the way it! I can just feel it pump'n a huge load n 2 my hole,would luv 2 feel it throb'n n my asshole huney!

Anonymous said...

My wife has almost zero sex drive and knows I wear tights when she is not around, she is fine with it and always has been. She never wears tights herself though which is a shame, she has no idea about using what she has to her advantage. I love her to bits though and would not swap her. I hope you have a great 2012 and please keep up the great work for tights kind!

Anonymous said...

You look lovely! I too love to put on my wife's bras. Anne cd

Nyle Ahn said...

It's encouraging to see the parts where you say that you and your wife enjoy spending time with each other. It sounds like you have a fairly good relationship, except that she's sexually cold.

You really ought to research this. We are sexual beings. We're designed to not only reproduce, but emotionally BOND by having sex. A woman without any interest in sex is someone who has some kind of emotional blockage/baggage. You really need to talk with her. Go to couples counseling. Honestly, if she really loves you, she'll be OK with doing this. Women usually love to talk about emotions anyway, as it's usually the guy that doesn't. Does she have any girlfriends that she confides in?

Also, do you find your wife sexually appealing? Or is she dowdy, overweight, and does little to improve her visual sex appeal? If she's attractive enough to excite you, then that's a major hurdle avoided right there.

Seriously... get going on this. Don't let time go by. There's a distance between you and your wife that is comfortable and safe, because it doesn't risk intimacy. But, intimacy is one of the few great pleasures of life. How sad it would be to look at another 10 years gone by with you getting your sexual pleasure only from pantyhose.

Of course I know only what you've shared. There will be undoubtedly other factors at work. Women have an amazing ability to shut themselves down sexually. However, given the right conditions and reassurance, they can be brought back out to the point of desiring sex on a regular basis. Who knows, it could be something to do with how you have sex together. Some women start their sexual experiences with untalented men, whereby they learn that sex is "not that great as everyone says" and leaves it at that. Even if you do the "right stuff", she may have mentally blocked herself from enjoying it.